Hi Emily,
Yes you are correct; we require the conjugate base form to calculate Kb, so for the same molecule, the Ka/Kb could be different, as shown here in the chart (focus on HSO4-):
https://chem.libretexts....etween_Ka_Kb_pKa_and_pKbIn a diprotic system, where:
Ka1 and Kb1 represents values of the
first (de)protonation
Ka2 and Kb2 represents the values of the
second (de)protonation,
Kw = Ka1 x Kb2.
So, if H2SO4 --
1st--> HSO4- --
second-->SO4 2-,
Ka of H2SO4 x Kb of HSO4- = Kw.
In your example:
H3PO4 --> H2PO4- --> HPO4 2- --> PO4 3-
If you have Kb of HPO4 2- (I think that's what you meant?), you can find the Ka of H2PO4-, using the Kw relationship. If you want the Ka of HPO4-, you will need the Kb of PO4 3-.
Each Ka x Kb relationship is based on one deprotonation. So if you want to find the Ka of a certain molecule, you will have to have the Kb of its conj. base form.
For your second question, Kb > Ka for bases, and Ka > Kb for acids.
Hope that helps!
Molly