Hi Nicole,
S/R can definitely be tricky, but I usually do this to help me find a stereocenter. Look for a carbon center with at least three bonds drawn on it. Generally, they have a pretty good chance of being a stereocentre.
As for solving this problem, you will have to look for places that are similar between the reactant and the product. Looking at brevicomin, there is a two carbon chain thats stickng out from a bond to a carbon bound to an oxygen. The only time when we see something like this is on carbon #8 and 9 of the starting epoxide. So, working our way across, we will find that carbon 7 is the first in the ring, and carbon #6 is the next one that would bind to an oxygen (they labelled it carbon #1 to confuse you in the first diagram). This tells me that carbon #6 is therefore the one involved in this ring-closing mechanism.
I hope that helps, please let me know if you have any further questions!
Cheers,
Molly